That song is SOOOOOOOO me right now! Ever since Tyler and I called it quits back in December, I've felt this sense of liberation. I'm a new woman and I feel like this sense of independence has drawn more men in...but I DON'T NEED A MAN to be happy! Sure, there are like 3 guys on the line right now who I'm trying to juggle, but hey, I am loving being single. And yeah, I guess if your name is John Mayer, you could call it "lonely."
"Nothing to do
Nowhere to be
A simple little kind of free
Nothing to do
No one but me
That's all I need
I'm perfectly lonely
Cause I don't belong to anyone
No one belongs to me"
I am PERFECTLY LONELY (aka single) and I LOVE it. I really do! There is nothing better than not having a man in my life who wants to hang with me on a night that I really have to do homework. It's great to just focus on myself right now. I love that I can come and go as I please. I can do whatever I want. I can go shopping and spend all my money! Who cares, it's my money, not "our" money. I can go to the gym at ridiculous hours of the day, I can veg in front of the tv and watch "The Bachelor" re-runs for hours on end, I can flirt with 10 different guys in the same day. I can be an idiot, and no one is going to tell me how to behave. Sure, that may been seen as selfish, but who cares? I'm only young once, right? I'm sure in 10 years time I'll look back at this point in my life and wish I could come back...instead of changing a dirty diaper.
Well, I guess that's my post for the day. I hope ya'll have a rootin' tootin' fabulous weekend! I know I will. I've got a HOT DATE with Jon this weekend! :) And yes, I am actually really excited/giddy/nervous about this one!
xo Sierra
I am in the EXACT same boat right now.
ReplyDeleteI <3 being single right now.
It's ok to be young and single and be selfish...
but heres the question. How 'old' is the cut off to be young and selfish. Is 24 too old? I feel like I may be flirting the fine line with young and selfish, and 'grow up and get married'
Opinions please:)
amen! except to have it less mellow than john mayer you should listen to "I don't need a man" by the pussycat dolls:)
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